Wellspring UMC; Seventeenth
Sunday after Pentecost; September 23, 2007: “Eyes vs. Heart”:
-Romans 2:
1-13; Luke 6: 37-42
“Judge
not and you will not be judged.” “Don’t
judge a book by it’s cover.” “People who
live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.”
We’ve heard these phrases, but the question before us today is how does
this advice affect our faithful living?
Today
we continue our series working through the Sermon on the Plain. We began with the blessings and woes which
invited us to put life into perspective, then last week we were reminded of the
call to love our enemies, as hard as that is.
Today we have lifted up for us words about judgment and judging...that
it is best to be aware of when we judge and that when we do, it has
ramifications for our lives.
Making judgment is one of those
things which we like to think we don’t do, but in reality we do. When I was in my seminary New Testament
class, I remember Dr. Efird saying, “People like to say that they don’t judge others,
but that’s bunk. Whether we like it or
not, everyone judges those around us.
What’s important is what we do with and what we learn when we do judge.”
Let’s face it. We judge people, and it is actually one of
the ways in which we assess our world.
In fact, the judgments we make of people can literally make the
difference between life and death, being safe or hurt, but here in Romans and
Luke scripture is not focused on safety issues.
Rather God is telling us to be aware of how we condemn people or rush to
conclusions about others simply because of how they look, what they say, or
even what they do. There is a deeper
side to everyone, and as followers of Jesus Christ, we are called to dig deeper
into ourselves and into who the other is, for in doing so, we not only discover
a child of God in front of us, but more importantly, we discover who we really
are.
I’ve
been fascinated this week following the events in
“Do
not judge, and you will not be judged...the measure you give will be the
measure you get back.”
All
it could have taken to avoid the whole thing would have been to step away from
the situation and talk it through. To be
willing to see that the person on the other side is a person and not just the
representation of something that’s different or threatening...and so it is with
all of the “
As I was preparing for today, I came
across this quote, “Judgment is an odd thing, for it emerges out of our own
fears. When we judge someone else, we
are actually reacting to something in them that is a threat to us.” I had to think about that one a bit. Judgment originates first from us? Judgment is a means by which we don’t just
resist the other but are really resisting those things in our lives with which
we would rather not deal honestly? Try
as I did to resist it, the statement began to become more and more true for me,
and I found myself giving it credence.
How many of us are irritated or
don’t get along with someone...let’s say a parent or our own child...and when
we really look at why, we realize that in them we see that which we
resist? How often do we go into a
situation feeling uneasy and uncomfortable, but instead of naming our own
discomfort we project that on those around us?
There is something ingrained in us
which pushes away our weaknesses or struggles and so easily passes those things
on to those who around us who are different.
But in order to live more completely, in order to live as ones who do
not judge, we must learn to recognize those tensions within ourselves and
acknowledgment our thoughts and feelings, and though it can be hard to look at,
in order to become fully alive in Christ, in order to live out the message of
the sermon on the plain, we have to be willing to examine and be honest with
ourselves.
Ah, but that is not always
easy. In fact, it’s often easier to not
go there, for if we do that, then we do not dig deeper, and if we do not dig
deeper we do not have to change. It’s
easier to keep things on the “eye” level, and you can take that as the letter
‘I’ or ‘e-y-e,’ for both reveal similar responses.
We prefer to keep things on the eye
level, but to fully experience life and relationships, we have to move toward
the heart level. We have to move toward
the core level, which includes seeking, not just our heart but the heart of the
other. Though we are prone to remain on
eye level, if we dare to go to the heart level, we find that our concern and
care broadens. No longer are we more
concerned with our hearts, but we begin to see and experience the core of the
other. A whole new world opens up, where
judgment is less prevalent and life is more fully lived.
A
colleague of mine shared this story with me.
In World War I the fighting was fierce and close, which meant that many
times soldiers were so close they would look one another in the eye in the heat
of battle. It is recounted that an
English soldier jumped into a foxhole, only to come upon a German soldier. The Englishman lifted his rifle to bayonet
the German, but stopped realizing that the German was mortally wounded.
The
Englishman noticed that the German was pointing to his pocket. Out of instinct the Englishman reached toward
the pocket and found pictures...of the man’s wife, his parents, his daughter,
and his son. He held each picture up so
the dying man could see them, and with each picture the man seemed to say
goodbye. After seeing the last, the German
died.
The
Englishman was taken aback, for this changed the war for him. No longer did he see his enemy, but he looked
upon and saw a husband, a son, and a father.
He had caught a glimpse of the heart of his enemy, and as he did, his
ability to judge the man was affected.
What was even more powerful and meaningful was that he saw the other
deeply, with his own heart, not just his eyes, and in doing so, he was changed.
Jesus shares with us this whole
concept of not judging then goes on to speak of those who cannot see. “Can a blind person guide a blind
person?” In other words, can society
fulfill God’s purpose if we walk around blind to one another, or even to
ourselves? “No,” Christ says, “I am the
teacher, follow me, and have your eyes and heart opened.”
He continues, “And why do you see
the speck in your neighbor’s eye, but do not notice the log in your own...you
must first remove your own hindrances,” Christ says, “before judging the
other.” In other words, we are invited
to examine ourselves first...see with our hearts where we truly are, for only
then will our eyes and lives be wide open.
On
the front of our bulletin today is this Haitian Proverb, “What the eye does not
see does not move the heart.” It is a
powerful statement, for so often we don’t look deep enough with our eyes to see
the child of God before us. This in
itself is a tragedy, but even more tragic is the truth that when we don’t look
deep enough at the other, we miss the opportunity to look deep into
ourselves. We miss the chance to learn
and grow more fully into who God would have us become. We risk healthy evaluation of our own lives,
which in turn leaves us where we are, rather than growing toward where God
needs us to be.
Jesus said, “Do not judge, and you will not be judged.” Look with more than the eyes, but seek with the heart. In doing so, everyone wins. Those around us are fulfilled, we are fulfilled, and God is proud, for when we are willing to do this, what God sees with God’s eyes is that which touches God’s heart. What God sees in us is the core of who God is, and God, the world, and we catch a glimpse of the way things are supposed to be. Amen.